Definitely not a clubhouse
After a year of semi-regularly visiting, I can say this facility is officially called “ACE, Inc.” and run by Betsy Walker and Todd Little, though many local resources still refer to it as “ACE Clubhouse.” Staff are oddly insistent that it’s not a clubhouse — which is a shame, because an actual clubhouse would likely be more fun and community-oriented. Instead, the atmosphere is more like a hybrid between adult daycare and kindergarten: highly structured, infantilizing, and not especially engaging.
At first glance, ACE seems like a promising space for those seeking mental health support or community. But don’t expect warmth or trust. Staff monitor members closely, with an air of suspicion, and interactions often feel controlling or outright hostile. Todd Little, in particular, makes no secret of his strong political and religious biases. If you lean politically center-right or express non-progressive views — especially if you’re male — expect to be treated accordingly.
There’s a noticeable double standard: female members are often given leniency, even allowed to nap; men, on the other hand, are reprimanded for as little as closing their eyes or changing into dry shoes after walking in snow. Activities are minimal and rigid. Much of the time is spent sitting silently or being nudged into “therapeutic” group discussions that may feel more performative than helpful.
Younger adults — particularly younger men — may feel unwelcome or distrusted, as if presumed to be disruptive or unsafe by default. ACE actively discourages members from exchanging phone numbers or social media, undermining the development of actual friendships or community support networks.
In short: ACE may offer meals, showers, and laundry — but beyond basic services, it’s a difficult place to truly connect, grow, or heal. If you’re an older person looking for a quiet space to sit and chat or reflect, it might suit you. But if you’re younger, male, or simply hoping for genuine peer connection and respect, you’ll likely find this environment cold, controlling, and disappointingly one-sided and stifling.
Expect neither to feel emotionally safe, nor heard, here.