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I can’t possibly put into words what this experience has done for my confidence. If you are on the fence about booking a shoot, here's your sign to go for it!

From the moment we had our first call right until the final images were delivered Mervyn has been incredible, his communication throughout the whole process has been amazing. Mervyn was incredibly patient and kind and noticed immediately when I was uncomfortable and needed a moment. He took the time to listen to me and offered valuable advice that I will remember forever. I left the photoshoot feeling like a completely different person. On the journey home I couldn't stop smiling and felt like a complete badass!

I had always loved the idea of a body confidence photoshoot but imagining myself in that position felt so alien. But I did it, and I still can’t believe I did it! Every time I look at the photos I feel so much joy remembering exactly how I felt in that moment.

Thank you so much Mervyn for the most amazing (and life changing) experience, I am so grateful and will treasure these beautiful photos forever.

Mervyn is so engaged from the moment the shoot is booked all the way to the end. He checked in on me on the days leading up to the shoot not only to understand what I wanted to get out of it but also to check in on how I was feeling. On the day made sure to spend time with me to discuss some uncertainties I had about some of my outfits and help me choose. I personally didn’t feel nervous at all from the moment I saw him on the day because he had such a calming presence and takes the time to make sure you’re ok! If anything I was only sad that I couldn’t spend the whole day in that shoot 😄

Doing a budoir shoot has always been a dream of mine however as a women who has dealt with body confidence her whole life I never thought I would .
I traveled to London from the USA for my 50th birthday and my husband knew there was no better time to make my dream come true.
He booked a photo shoot for me with Mervyn as he knew that when he found "You at Yours Photography" he had found the photographer for me.
Mervyn is absolutely amazing ! He coordinated with my husband for months to make sure my experience would be nothing less than perfect and it was . I spoke with Mervyn about a month before the shoot and he helped ease some nerves but also reminded me that being nervous is 100% normal and is actually a good thing.
When photo shoot day arrived I thought there was no way I would go thru with this. Despite my nerves and anxiety I did get myself to the shoot and am so thankful I did. The experince was life changing and the start I needed on my journey to self love . Mervyn made me extremely comfortable. If I had to use one word to sum up photo shoot it would be "FUN"!
As we were leaving London 2 days later Mervyn made sure he had my photos ready for my reveal the next morning ! I was actually more nervous to see the photos than I was for the actual shoot , which Mervyn says is also normal. As soon as the photos starting appearing on the screen I was overcome with emotion. Mervyn did exactly what he says he would do and that is bring out your true beauty. The only regret I have about the whole experience is that it went so fast . In a blink of an eye we were done shooting and it was over.
I will always remember how I felt during this experience: beautiful , strong and confident !
From the day of booking to the final stage of selecting my photos Mervyn has been nothing less than amazing !
If you are thinking about a budoir shoot and not sure if you are ready I would say stop hesitating and do it with "You at Yours photography".
Thank you Mervyn for showing me that even the things I don't like about myself are beautiful and that's what makes me me !

Merv is an absolute star! Trust me the process was as wonderful as the photos :) for helping me feel comfortable and confident, to making me see myself in a different light - thank you so much. Not to mention - absolute professionalism, great at accommodating timelines. Absolute recommend to everyone at least once in their lifetime

So so glad I booked up with Merv - he made me feel comfortable instantly and knew exactly how to get the confidence out of me I didn’t even know existed.

I normally hate looking at photos of myself however it was a struggle choosing my favourites from the shoot as they were all so incredible. I have even looked back on older photos that I used to hate and have been able to look at myself in a new, compassionate way.

This isn’t a ‘sexy’ shoot - it’s a shoot which will empower you and in turn the images will turn out powerful, and therefore sexy in their own right.

This shoot is truly life changing!

Don't think twice, just book your photoshoot with Merv!

I am incredibly grateful for my photoshoot with Merv, what an empowering experience!
I am plus size woman, I’ve been super self conscious about my body… I remember to be close to walking away just before I arrived at the studio, panicking about the shoot and being so vulnerable in my underwear.

Today, I have one of those pictures hanging on the wall in my bedroom. Today I look at those pictures and I realise how amazing and powerful I am for overcoming everything in life and for celebrating myself.

Merv made me feel comfortable and really helped me build up my confidence throughout the shoot. And damn, he is the best photographer out there…!!

I will be doing this again. Don’t wait for the perfect time for the shoot. Today is always a perfect day to celebrate yourself and your body!

I wish I could give Merv 6 stars instead of 5, the whole experience was just brilliant from start to finish. Merv is genuine, patient and understanding, which made a huge difference in my how I felt when booking, the lead up to the shoot, during and even afterward! Not for one second did I feel like a statistic, Merv isn't about that. I felt he was genuinely invested in me and my journey to build confidence in myself, and that's exactly what he did. He is obviously talented, but I think you really so have to trust and believe in the person behind the camera, and I can hand on heart say I did. I would highly recommend the experience, it's a once in a lifetime experience which you will not regret.

Mervyn is incredible at what he does. He radiates an energy that makes you feel safe & seen. He knows how to put you at ease & bring out sides of you that you’ve kept hidden away for far too long. He is professional, patient & just an all round lovely guy!

It was by far the best photoshoot experience I’ve ever had! My only criticism which is not a criticism at all (it’s me unreasonably asking for more because it was that good) is that it wasn’t long enough & I never thought I’d see the day where I would say that about being in front of a camera.

The photo reveal was the defining moment for me. I didn’t expect to like many of the photos, if any, not because of Mervyn’s photography skills (he’s amazing) but because of my own issues. It was a very emotional experience. I ‘knew’ before going in that I’d be going home with the smallest package because I anticipated not liking what I was going to see during the reveal but I loved the photos so much I ended up going for the biggest package 😂 no pressure is put on you to make a purchase which is another great thing to mention. Mervyn really does allow you to be in complete control of the whole experience while guiding you & giving you the support you need to help you through it & enjoy it every step of the way.

It’s easy for your mind to convince you that being able to celebrate yourself in this way is impossible when you struggle with body confidence. Mervyn gave me an experience that showed me you can be bigger than your insecurities (no matter how big or small they may be) & that it is more than possible to not be defined or controlled by them. The impact of this experience has remained long after my photo reveal. It’s something that has really left its mark on me & has instilled in me a feeling of self-love, acceptance & empowerment that I didn’t think I was capable of feeling. You come away from it seeing yourself in a whole new light & it stays with you. I will forever be grateful for the experience & I encourage anyone who’s been thinking about booking with Mervyn to just go for it. I cannot recommend it enough!

Whilst on holiday, one of my friends recognised how l was so hard and down on my body and recommended a photoshoot with Mervyn as a friend of hers had done it.

I had my initial chat and l booked within minutes, Merv has a natural ability to open up and l felt right at ease and knew that l would be in safe hands. On the day itself, it was incredible, Mervyn has such a beautiful way of creating a safe space, making you feel comfortable and giving words of positive encouragement. It was almost like a therapy session! The photoshoot was so much fun and l felt able to take myself to new limits and focus on the feeling then what the end result would be which you carry through with you upon the review of photos.

I recently had a second review of my photos as it was incredibly hard to decide on what to keep because you want to keep them all!
If you're thinking about having a photoshoot with Merv - do it and you'll never look back! What a wonderful way to celebrate yourself.

I originally booked this shoot to gift the photos to my husband for our wedding anniversary but very quickly decided that this experience should be for me to really get the most out of it. The minute I made that mental switch, I felt so empowered and knew that I had made the right decision.

For me, the timing of this shoot was everything as I was in a very negative space at the time of booking. I hoped the shoot would build me up and offer a lifeline but I never imagined the genuine long lasting effects it would have on me.

From the minute I stepped into Mervyn’s space, I felt calm and comforted. Mervyn had a way of understanding what I needed in the moment, despite having only known me for five minutes.

During the shoot, Mervyn ensured I was happy throughout and directed me in the right way to get the most out of the day, encouraging my true self to shine through.

I did not for one minute think that I would come away loving all the photos captured… all of me! I had never looked at myself or admired myself in a way that I do now because I see beauty in the person looking back at me through those photos. This impact has spread throughout my relationship, my personal confidence levels and self belief.

As with all experiences, there are a couple of things that I regret:

1. I didn’t book two and half years ago when I originally enquired because I’d be so much further along my journey of self love, and
2. I wish I bought more of my images.

Not bad regrets to have!

Mervyn, a genuine thank you for doing what you do, the message behind it and giving me the belief that I am beautiful through the art you create. I’m sure the effects of this shoot will be felt for a long time.

I can’t wait to receive my digital images and app!

Merv is AMAZING. Right from my enquiry all the way up to me viewing my photos he was (is) amazing.

I made the decision to do an outdoor body confidence shoot as part of my own journey to build my confidence, love myself and my body for the way it is now (not getting “photoshoot” ready and to push myself outside of my comfort zone to see what I was capable of.

I wouldn’t have had the experience or outcome I did without Merv. He is hands down THE BEST person to book your shoot with.

He provides nothing but positive and uplifting energy, he will be your biggest cheerleader on the day, he provides a safe space for you to be vulnerable, step outside your comfort zone and he really helps bring out the best in you.

It’s about so much more than the photos. It’s about the experience and bringing out the best version of you that you didn’t even know existed. Then continuing to be that version of yourself that you see in the photos.

Merv has a real gift and talent for bring out the best in people and it’s clear he is insanely passionate about what he does, it’s clear his job is about way more than just “getting the shot” and taking nice photos. It’s an entire journey that I would recommend everyone embark on at some point in their life.

I’m proud of me and also very grateful Merv and I crossed paths.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I decided to embark on a body confidence shoot because a friend just had an experience and was raving so much about it, I thought let me see what all the ‘fuss’ is about! I am glad I was subjected to peer pressure because I haven’t been the same since my shoot. It is so much more than taking photos. The feeling you are left with is indescribable and if you are anything like me, it will have an impact on your life!
Right from the outset, Mervyn was (is) amazing. From the first call to ensure it was the right choice for me, he made me feel at ease and almost instantly, I felt like I was talking to a long lost friend. Mervyn talked me through the process and then I booked my shoot a few days later.
The day of the shoot came and naturally I was nervous because I had never done anything like this before but honestly, I can hand on heart say it is one of the best things I have ever done FOR MYSELF! Mervyn arrived and we chatted before heading to the space for my shoot and then we began…the energy shifted and I left that day feeling renewed! I left feeling empowered to do anything and this feeling has infiltrated my personal and professional life; A completely life changing experience. And every time I am feeling down/inadequate, I just look at my photos as a reminder of how powerful I am!

Mervyn you have a gift and and I am so glad you are working and WALKING in the space to make women feel empowered and seen without feeling objectified. You are an incredible human being. I have told allllll my girls to book a shoot with you! Thank you so very much.

P.s. 5+5 = 12 in my eyes (you’ll know who this is when you read that part). Hahaha

The body confidence shoot with Merv was one of the best experiences of my life and the best thing I did for myself. He provided a very safe and comfortable space to shoot and play in. I've (re)discovered myself, who I am at the core, what I like, and what I need. If you're unsure about doing a shoot like that just know that you'll gain confidence from this and will go through a journey unlike any other. Just do it!

Date of experience: 03/04/2022
I wish I could have written this review soon after the photoshooting to capture the whole essence of it,
however, for personal reasons I couldn't do it straight away.

I am here now though, after more than a year from that day looking through my photos again, as I did many times over this past year, to say that this experience was more than a simple photoshooting!
I went through them for the designing of the album I can't wait to see and it felt like reliving that experience once more... I can clearly remember how it unfolded... I had no idea what to expect and for a person like me that tend to suffer from anxiety, the before was nerve wracking but Mervyn was able to put me at ease since the beginning and it did that so effortlessly. I did other photoshootings in the past, but this was a different story: a glass of Prosecco, my favorite music playlist in the background and Mervyn guiding me through two hours of self-discovery like I have never done before, to the point that at times I felt I was alone in the room. The result cannot be explained through words, but I can tell you that the photo reveal was filled with a lot of jaw-dropping moments and every time I see the photos the confident side of me kicks in. He somehow was able to capture a part of me that I knew it was hidden somewhere and I never seen it before until that day.

I cannot thank him enough for allowing me to be myself throughout the whole process, and the kind support in working through a payment plan that suited my finances at the time. On top of that, the quality of the photos is outstanding!
Mervyn is an amazing boudoir photographer who will go above and beyond to give you the experience of a lifetime, and I highly recommend you book a call with him as soon as you read this! You won't regret it!

This experience was like no other... When I started looking for boudoir experiences, I called many companies and set up initial meetings. I was only really impressed by Merv and one other. However, I went with Merv because he seemed enthusiastic and set on making this a positive and affordable experience.

Merv understands that this is something women want to do for themselves, to make themselves feel beautiful and to allow us to see ourselves in a different light. Throughout the process, Merv ensured to make sure I was comfortable with the activities as well as him as a photographer. He set up many meetings and many reminder emails. I also loved that day of the shoot, we sat and talked and even went through outfit options together to narrow down what I wanted to wear. I did find that initially, he seemed nervous or sleepy, but I think that once we both woke up and let loose, we had a great time.

During the shoot, Merv helped pose me and get me comfortable, but then let me do my own thing. It's amazing the confidence that gets built on set. I was also impressed by the minimalist of materials and space used -- and I think that speaks volumes to the photographer. My boyfriend also joined us during the shoot, and we both were very comfortable with Merv and his professionalism. I appreciated that no matter what outfit and how revealing, Merv always talked to me in the eyes.

After the shoot, Merv was complimentary and excited about the photos. We had our meeting of reviewing the photos, and I ended up loving them more than I thought I would. This is coming from someone who definitely has a lack of body confidence. Not only that, Merv was kind in working through a payment plan. I think that he is driven to ensure that I get a positive experience before, during, and after. This was by far the best experience I could have asked for as a first boudoir experience. I would not put it past me to book another with Merv further down the line.

I found this experience so much more than I thought it would be. More empowering. More life changing and worth every penny and moment.
Mervyn is an amazing person. He truly has a gift to make you feel understood, respected and confident!
I recommend this experience to anyone and everyone.

Mervyn is unbelievable! I had an amazing experience working with him. I loved every second of my shoot from start to finish and I felt happy and comfortable all the way through . The photos came out beautiful, I never thought I’d be able to see myself in such a beautiful way. I would love to do it again!

I was lucky enough to attend Mervyn’s You at Yours celebration event and even luckier to win the raffle prize of a trip to Marrakesh with body confidence photoshoot and 10 images. From start to finish the experience was transformative; as a single parent it was my first time away from my little one aside from work and I needed that space to rediscover parts of myself. The photoshoot was the ultimate celebration of a few of those parts that I rarely get to see/share/reflect on. Merv supported me to let go and feel free. After a long and complicated history with my body, I forgot how the universe gives you exactly what you need at exactly the right time.

This week I got to see the images for the first time. It was emotional and uplifting; I can’t wait to receive the images and forever remember that moment in time.

I've been thinking about doing a boudoir photoshoot for a while but never felt that my body was good enough for it. I've always struggled with confidence and with my body. I came across Merv's website and loved his work as well as the experience that he is offering. I booked an appointment before I could overthink it and change my mind. And I have absolutely no regrets! Merv is very kind and very fun to work with. He is really good at guiding you into the poses but he also wants you to bring your personal touch to it. I arrived to the photoshoot very nervous as expected. But Merv and the make up artist were really nice and made me feel very comfortable. I left the photoshoot feeling amazing, and had a great time.
The photo reveal was definitely a rollercoaster of emotion. But Merv was here to hold my hand on this journey and I'm very grateful for that. I am coming out of this experience with amazing memories and gorgeous pictures.
This is definitely an experience that I would recommend! If you're thinking about doing something like that, please do, you won't regret it!

I wanted to do this as a gift to my husband for our 1 year wedding anniversary (paper) and I couldn't have chosen a better person to do it with.

Merv was incredible from start to finish, from my first call I knew that You at Yours was the company I wanted to do this with, he made me feel so positive and relaxed before we had even started. Merv made me realise that this wasn't just a gift for my husband but something for myself and he couldn't have been more right. I have never felt so confident and wish i could do it all over again.

If you're on the fence about doing this like I was, just do it you won't regret it trust me!